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    Fantastic Friday


    Brian Klein

    :AOK: Fantastic Friday! :CLINDOEIL:

    The rules are simple"

    1. You leave a comment.
    2. Your comment gets placed in the proverbial 'Humanastorian Glass Jar'.
    3. One random comment liked best by Humanastory may be announced winner of "Fantastic Friday" on an upcoming 'Coffee With Humanastory' Episode (Winners are chosen at random).

    We will chose the comments from the following:

    • Including but not limited to; our Website (the main place we look), Facebook, Twitter, and (or) YouTube.
    • This applies to not only our community and social media but also our Contact Us System and even our live show 'call in comments'.
    • We announce the winners of our Fantastic Friday contest on our Friday 'Coffee With Humanastory' Episodes.
    • The winner will only have until 12:00 AM PST on the following Monday morning to respond to our initial 'winner' notification on the show, or their win is forfeit.

    We have more ongoing contests you can join in on here.

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